Archive for August 2013

Progressivity

Do not intend to express scientific arguments, or technical terminology concerning concepts that speak of alcoholism and/or drug addiction, I just simply want to share my point of view and personal experience, which by law I know. Draw me much attention to observe the phenomenon of how through the time consumed intended greater quantities of liquor, to feel the need to mix it with other substances. Being a teen my first contact with the drink was until you get drunk. My age and inexperience was not large amount which consumed intended first, but I draw the first common factor, I discovered as obviating the trouble which at that time felt or believed to have, which became a justification, put it another way, I learned in my first contact to escape from my reality. My mind found a vehicle that allowed me to express me in other ways, of course without understanding it or noticing me. Not forgotten, that first occasion, having dawned on the floor with the achy body, surprised, stunned, with an unpleasant flavour on the palate, headache, etc. However two days again, I consumed intended.

Why not I refused the drink? Despite the unpleasant experience. This point lays down different controversies on the subject, what is decisive is the fact that alcoholics have a mental condition structured development of the habit of intake, in addition the proper metabolism to tolerate alcohol; on the contrary, people without these characteristics, with all logic reject a second chance or to all those who have seen drinking in moderation. In my case, ignorance, culture and environment, allowed that each time you consume larger amounts. Ignorance, because thought be learning to drink; not limited to the cultural fact that men they take, and if not do you not yaw on that description and being a habit accepted by society escalation was rampant. Seafood without beer, feast without rum, business if whisky, worth without a friend and a bottle between them, weekend, and the of not Finish; parameters of a structure of thought that sought to justify drinking, therefore progressively in their quantity and form for any reason.

Today I wonder really I liked the taste of liquor? Independent is, I conclude that no, since I find no explanation, why Mesclar rum with coca, whiskey with water, etc. was not its taste but its effect since the date I am not able to take me 14 sodas but if I could consume the same number of beers in one sitting. It is understood and obvious alcoholism impaired personality, therefore, with major or obvious imbalances in my personality the need for a different reality was necessary more often, or what is the same thing the effects of the drink were generating one increasing dependence. The phrases typical to justify that circle of conduct, such as, I only drink on weekends: anyone do it damage; is my money spend it; they served cane to increasingly consume more. The experiences may be different, but we can identify because We know the same way. Original author and source of the article.

Louise Hart

Sometimes they do something and then turn his face to see their MOM or dad looking for approval or disapproval, and the response you get from the adult, that is the image of themselves that they are watching in the mirror, at that time in particular. Do not have another mirror where to look, we are its referent, until they themselves develop their personality and their own understandings. But even so, still beating inside the beliefs, those receiving their more intimate environment being children. Why are so important the first years of life, from conception to age 6 especially. Self-esteem is developed from the quality of the relationship that exists between our children and the most important people in the environment they grow.

They capture the emotional state in a given situation as radars, observed the looks, read behind words, gestures, tone of voice and body posture, and draw conclusions. Sometimes true, sometimes false, but for them all valid. Those conclusions are true or not, are those that will form beliefs about themselves. Why it doesn’t matter so much what we say but how we say it. Everything that we reflect our children will be the basis of the image will have about themselves. The opportunity to change history perhaps ourselves as daughters / I do not receive the affection and attention that we wanted, that we needed from our parents. Our parents at the same time, surely received far less than what we could give to us. Each generation delivers what he received as a legacy, and then makes its best efforts to the task of parenting.

But whatever it is that they have done so, we can choose to act from the compromise and transcend the limitations of our parents and our society. Louise Hart says in his book the happy family, our children give us the opportunity to be parents that we have always wanted to have. In a family, self-esteem begins with how to be parents. The children cannot choose how to be reared. As parents, we can become aware of transcendence that has changed us to change the future of our children, changing our beliefs and our negative patterns that they in turn transmitted same to their children, and so on from one generation to another. It may be inspiring thinking that you’re not only making the effort to change you, but that you are cutting the chain, family history, to make a wonderful and invaluable gift to your children. So where do you start? By accept you, for to love you more, by respect you and take care of your needs first. Such attitudes will enrich your relationship with your children, and they will learn to love and also to love and respect you. There is something that is now very clear to me: the imitation is not only one of the ways children learn is the only. Do you’re willing / or take the first step? Would you like to change your own family history from the love and acceptance? Why not what you do? Original author and source of the article.

The Earth

My life will end and all that remains for me is to ask the same land to see if me responds. This man slept on the floor forest, upside down, with arms and legs extended and began to talk to him to the Earth, but at the time fell asleep. It was so he dreamed that he was led hand by a woman very, very nice to a fantastic place where there was a big ball of energy. She then told her: that is what is inside this great mother. She has a place for all of you, for all those who with their heart want to enter into it, because there you will find everything what you are looking for. At that time the Lord was frightened and was happy both at the same time, he woke up and in doing so saw that beautiful woman who had dreamed he was beside her.

Who are you? you’re the woman of my dreams?, he asked. She said: Yes, I’m that woman that was in your dream. But also I am your mother, I am your mother earth, and want you to know that inside me many things and you all have to fight to go someday to know them. Even seeing it he believed that it was half crazy for believing the Earth. But in his heart he felt that it was true and devoted himself to create a theory that claimed that this planet was hollow and that future generations would touch them to enter to discover the wonders that was inside. But scientists at the time said that no, that the Earth was not hollow, but solid and that was impenetrable. So far says that it is impossible to go away by such high temperature having magma. Teachers say that not so, that we have to return to consider the theory of this Italian scientist, that we have to worry about achieving communication with Earth for power to know what actually is, and not be satisfied with the external.